We live in a world where most of us are unaware of our true power.

What if I said that all of you can be whatever you want, have whatever you want, be constantly happy and do only what makes you feel good, even helping others? Most of you wouldn’t believe me. Last week’s version of myself wouldn’t believe it either. I mean, I would believe it with my mind, however it wasn’t something that I was applying on myself. I have been on a spiritual path for years, which has led me to have a fair bit of intellectual knowledge about life. This is great but it has been useless for a long time, because even if I was preaching and giving advice to everyone, I wasn’t be able to apply this knowledge or “secret” to my life.

What changed?

I was doing a Oneness Relationship Process in the Gold Coast when something came out clearly, and for the first time I could see something I have never seen before: my inner child.

I have seen and realised that there is a child inside us; scared, crying for attention. This child has been overtaken by our ego that leads us to a selfish, unhappy life, where we find ourselves constantly doing things we don’t like, going to a work that doesn’t fulfil us, stressing out because we want to do many things and have everything under control. This looks like a pretty standard life to me, and now I see why there’s so much suffering in the world.

That child I saw was me. My real self, my soul, my heart…it was just the real me. What I realised after that vision is that I don’t love myself, and I have proof of this because my inner child wasn’t singing but crying. In this world full of judgement and brain washing it’s really hard to love oneself. Most of you may say: “sorry to hear that, but I love myself”. My question here is: Are you sure? Are you truly, deeply sure?

I wrote on the mirror of the bathroom: I LOVE MYSELF, I ACCEPT MYSELF BECAUSE I AM PERFECT EXACTLY THE WAY I AM, I AM AMAZING. My life changed in that moment when writing those words, I promised my inner child that I will always look after him, I will always listen to him and make him laugh, I will nurture him because he is the most precious thing I have.

I felt happy, grateful and with lots of energy. I will keep doing my inner work to discover my ego games, my fears, and the beliefs that put a bad filter between me and the reality. At the end of the day, the choice is mine, and I choose to take responsibility for myself, for my emotional and physical health, for my thoughts that will create my life.

I wrote a set of LIFE RULES with the help of my wonderful half Daniela and i will share with you:

1. Love yourself at all times.
2. Acknowledge the miracle, the perfection and the power in you.
3. Nurture your inner child at all times.
4. Watch who is driving you at all times. Your ego or your inner child?
5. Let your inner child overtake the mind at all times.
6. Free yourself of mind created rules, and doubt everything.
7. Remind yourself these rules at all times.

I hope you all discover your inner child and start living by your inner child’s rules, not by your ego’s.